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2009
Napoleon Hill and the Power of the MindPosted by ecoyak in Law of Attraction, Personal Development, Success Articles
You become what you think about the most. Maybe so but a very powerful one indeed. A great many successful entrepreneurs attribute Think and Grow Rich to their own personal development and success. The book was first published in the 1930’s, much of the language is somewhat archaic, but the message is just as timeless and relevant today. I say through clarity comes change. So spend time deciding what is you want and then describe this with absolute crystal clarity. Notice the reference to the two envelopes. Which one will you choose?
Oct
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2009
Life Lessons from the World of SportPosted by ecoyak in Change, Goals, Personal Development, Success ArticlesOn Saturday night David The Tuamaninator Tua beat Shane The Mountain Man Cameron a few seconds into the second round of an eagerly awaited heavy weight boxing match. Some will say the job was done before the end of the first round! We witnessed a brief glimpse of incredible punching power and domination[from Tua] over his opponent. This surprised me as I reckon Cameron is a much better fighter than he was allowed to show on the night. Both boxers had trained very hard to be in excellent condition for this fight. ‘If I lose because I didn’t give it my best………’ David Tua What was the difference.? Why was one fighter so dominant. I am no boxing expert, but I am sure this was not a mismatch, not a fight just for ’show’. The difference might come down to belief. Both contenders of course talked up their chances, both told us they would be the winner. Given that both fighters were in very very good condition and both had developed strategies to offset the other’s strengths and weaknesses, how is it that on the night the winner seemed to make victory look almost too easy? I am sure you have seen this at other sporting events. Often the superior team somehow lets the other seemingly weaker team beat them. This has happened with the All Blacks and the Silver Ferns this year. Both teams have played well below their potential game after game only to rise like a Phoenix from the ashes and put on a display that is truly inspiring and won convincingly. It is like they have woken up from a state of hibernation, too late for the series win though! Life is like this too! Deep down you know you have the talent and the ability to excel to achieve outstanding results but you don’t. Why is that? Maybe you do not believe. Maybe you have lost focus. A useful tool that helps is to ‘remember a time when……..‘ you did succeed, you felt great, anything was possible. Getting in touch with your feelings, how you felt at that time is a great way to get back on the horse and ride to success. This is one of the self development secrets to getting what you want. To becoming all that you can be. Just like the super sports stars and teams your chances of success are as much a mental exercise as anything else [assuming of course you have done the physical preparation!]. Being a member of a top sports team is as much an exercise in personal development as an individual who aspires to be, do, and have more success and happiness in his or her life. Shane Cameron has said he will be back. He is disappointed, who wouldn’t be? Next time Shane will do whatever it takes to ensure that he does not lose. So will you. Remember the Zen saying: ‘Knock down seven times, get up eight! P.S. The annual Bathurst 1000 motor race is on this weekend. There will be approximately 29 teams attempting to redress their bitter disappointments from last year! They will be prepared. What will be the difference between the winning team and the rest? Luck? Unlikely.
I have a passing interest in motor sport. In fact I’m a bit of a [aging], petrol head! I have just read a newspaper article [New Zealand Herald] on the recent Moto GP Formula 1 round at San Marino. Valentino Rossi won. He has been world champion 7 times, but lost that title to Casey Stoner last year. I think Stoner might have a better [faster], bike. Stoner was leading by 3 seconds by the end of the second lap! Stoner crashed out, Rossi went on to win and now leads the championship with 5 races to go. What got my attention in the article was this….” We have a 75 point lead which means that up to now we’ve been very strong, we’ve never let up, and more than everything we’ve kept our heads held high even during difficulties,” said Rossi, who has finished runner up in the last two seasons. “This year I told myself that to beat Stoner we needed the best Valentino. I tried to bring him out. I think I’ve found him and I am happy” That statement is the perfect demonstration of a never give in, never say die attitude. It is no doubt one very good reason why Rossi has been world champion 7 times and is in a tight contest for his 8th. It is the kind of thing we as coaches talk about a lot – or as Napoleon Hill wrote in ‘Think and Grow Rich’, in order to achieve you must have a ‘burning desire’. Do you think Valentino knows this? You bet he does! Have a clear goal – align it with your values and remain focussed until you get there! It’s simple but not always easy. World Champion again! If you have been following my posts you will recall my comments on Valentino Rossi – well it’s been along time between drinks as they say but in case you have been hibernating for a month or two, Valentino did in fact win the championship! Postscript: If you had about the origins of the The AHA Factor, then with Valentino’s story we have a very good example of someone who has nothing to prove, he was already World Champion 7 times – he did not need to really get another one or did he? I believe he did. For no other reason than by his own standards he knew inside himself that he could do better. If he had given his absolute best, then Valentino may have been somewhat content to be runner up however he knew that this was not the case. So he ‘became’ the best Valentino and the rest is history. This reminds me of a quote from Mahatma Ghandi’: “You must be change you wish to see in the world” Rossi in Action Here’s a bonus. It’s some unbelievable action of Valentino Rossi at his best. Enjoy!
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What the Mind Can Conceive
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